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Are You Stressed All The Time?

Are You Stressed All The Time?

Are you …?

  • Feeling overwhelmed
  • Unable to stop thinking about something
  • Feeling numb and detached
  • Having trouble sleeping
  • Always feeling anxious, moody or frustrated
  • Over eating, over use of alcohol, drugs or other addictions

If you can relate to any of the above, it may be time to stop and think about how you can help manage your stress levels and moods.

What does it mean if you are stressed all the time?

Stress is our body’s way of rising to a challenge, and preparing to meet a tough situation with focus, stamina, and heightened alertness.

But if you are always feeling stressed out, it could be a sign that your body isn’t dealing with the day-to-day stuff anymore. Perhaps you are overloading yourself with too many things to do? If that’s the case, it may be worth sitting down and writing a list of everything you have got on at the moment and then start prioritising.

To help manage stress, it may be good to get the problem out in the air. After all, you can’t fix a problem if you don’t face it.

Don’t accept that you are stressed all the time… this isn’t normal.  There is another way.  There is a way to reclaim a sense of balance and control.

 

Our Top 7 Stress Busters

 

  1. Be active

Exercise will not make your stress go away, but it will reduce some of the emotional intensity that you are feeling, clearing your thoughts and enabling you to deal with your problems more calmly. However, you need to be careful about high intensity exercise, as working out for 45 minutes or more at a high intensity raises cortisol levels and is counter productive for stress reduction.

  1. Take control

There is a solution to any problem. That feeling of loss of control is one of the main causes of stress and lack of wellbeing. The act of taking control is in itself empowering, and it’s a crucial part of finding a solution to any issues you are trying to overcome.  You may not like the possible outcomes but you will feel better for having made a decision.

  1. Connect with people

A good support network of colleagues, friends and family can ease your work troubles and help you see things in a different way. Having a good laugh with your friends and family can help us relax, which is an excellent stress reliever.

  1. Have some ‘me’ time

Here in the UK, we work the longest hours in Europe, meaning we often don’t spend enough time doing things that we enjoy. Set aside at least one night a week for ‘me time’, by earmarking this time it means you will not be tempted to work overtimeall the time and you will begin to feel a sense of regaining balance.

  1. Avoid unhealthy habits

Don’t rely on alcohol, smoking and caffeine or sugar as your ways of coping. Over the long term, these habits will not solve your problems. They’ll just create new ones.

  1. Work smarter, not harder

Working smarter means prioritising your work, concentrating on the tasks that will make a real difference. Accept that your in-tray will always be full, but that you can achieve a sense of satisfaction and control from setting your own boundaries and priorities.  Work in a way that works for you, for some that is getting the hardest and most important tasks out of the way early in the day, while others find that getting a few smaller more routine tasks checked off gives a sense of achievement that motivates them to tackle the bigger tasks.

  1. Tune into your body

Mentally scan your body to get a sense of how stress affects it each day. Lie on your back, or sit with your feet on the floor. Start on your toes and work your way up to your scalp, notice how your body feels. Notice how your breathing begins to slow and steady.  Notice how just spending this simple exercise can really help reduce the intense feelings of overwhelm.
No one needs to feel stressed all the time.  Chronic stress is not a natural or healthy state for our bodies or mind and over time stress is a major factor in disease and ill health.  So don’t accept feeling stressed all the time.

 

If you feel that you need additional support to help you to manage your stress levels then so seek professional help, speak to your GP or therapist or contact us to discover how our Stress Reset Retreat has helped hundred of women reclaim control and stop feeling stressed all the time.

 

 

 

The Invisible Damage Sugar Causes

The Real Worry About The Damage Sugar Causes To Health & Wellbeing

One of the most obvious signs that high sugar consumption is causing damage to health is excessive weight gain but the damaging effects of sugar are not always visible,..yes over consumption of sugar can make you gain weight but most of the damage is happening internal, increased inflammation, diabetes, impaired mental function, imbalanced energy or mood.  This is long and growing as we learn more about just how damaging sugar can be.

This is borne out in the women who join us on the Sugar Detox Retreat over half the women who join us are not particularly overweight. They come because their energy levels are unstable and they have been propping themselves up with carbs and coffee and know that cant last.  Or they are concerned about the lack of control they have around certain foods, usually simple sugars or processed carb based foods.  They want to regain control.

The key interest for us here at The Body Retreat about the impact of sugar was firstly as a clinical hypnotherapist and women’s wellness coach I was fascinated by the effect of sugar on the brain, in particular the reward centres of the brain and how this in turn leads to over eating and ill health.

Sugar behaves in the same way as alcohol, drugs even gambling and sex…sugar fires off the reward centre of the brain which we know with repeated reinforcement can become compulsive addictive behaviour.

We are programmed to enjoy sweet foods and to dislike bitter foods…this is an evolutionary protection that meant that when foraging we would be less likely to eat anything poisonous.  So we are born with a sweet tooth…. but when you mix and sweet tooth with reinforced reward at a cellular level in a society when sweet stuff is available 24/7 and for a fraction of the cost of whole foods then its trouble.

What we have found is that it is exactly the addictive nature of sugar that makes it so hard to kick…even if you want to.

Lets say you cut out bread and cakes..they are famously sugar laden…so instead you eat Rye Crackers and Fruit Salad.

Except that its just sugar again in a different form.

Your sweet tooth will find a way to sate itself… but you feel that you are doing something good.

But actually this may prove to be more harmful because now you are over consuming “healthy” invisible sugars… Disaster.

Or even worse you buy the sugar free alternative so you can keep the great sweet taste with no sugar…. so now you are consuming artificial sweeteners, they may be zero calorie but that doesn’t mean they are a good sugar alternative.  Your brans still registers the sweet taste and so your pancreas is tricked into releasing insulin, and the sweet taste also means that you are keeping your sweet tooth artificially heightened…actually making your crave more sugar in the long run ( the hormone leptin is released in response to the sweet tastes, but when the calories don’t come the level is not sufficient to make you switch off eating as you would with whole foods)

What we have found at our Sugar Detox Retreat is that we remove up to 80 of all sugar…so thats fruit, starchy veg, dairy, grains.  The reason is firstly to reset the taste buds.  This means at the end of the week as you start to reintroduce real whole foods with natural sugars …say an apple..it will taste off the scale sweet..this happens time and time again.

We are also looking at rebalancing leptin levels by having a diet that is high in good quality proteins, fats and fibre..the fill you up foods.

By the end of just one week appetites are rebalanced and energy levels are stable.

Next up its looking at the brain and finding new ways to manage the reward pathways… nature hates a vacuum if you just remove the reward you will feel depressed, anxious and very likely to relapse. so we look at tangible ways to fill that gap.

Just this week I watched a video of a health professional claiming that sugar is not addictive…it only creates addictive behaviours…I’ll leave you to think about that one.  They suggested that you simply replace the reward with something else that makes you feel good…a hug from a loved one or some breathing exercises!!  Obviously they have never really experienced the pull of sugar addiction when you would sell a kidney to get your hands on some thing to give you that lift.

Sugar is complicated.  It comes in so many forms.  So even when you think you are eating clean you may still be unwittingly creating problems for yourself.

Sugar And Stress

Sugar & Stress

 

So which way is it for you?

Do you get stressed and reach for the sugar?

Or

Eat sugar and then feel stressed?

 

The truth is, it doesn’t really matter which way it goes because bombarding your body with either stress or sugar for extended periods of time, is simply a sure way to sabotage your health, happiness and wellbeing.

 

For many people caught up in the hamster wheel of working all hours –being stressed and eating fast food of some sort may seem your only option. The fact is that you do have choices. However, first you need to become conscious of how you are thinking and handling certain situations that are making you stressed which in turn is making you crave the sweet stuff.

 

Sugar and Stress – The Relationship

 

Blood sugar spikes seriously affect stress and inflammation levels in your body. Spiked blood sugar causes stress in your body, which causes your adrenal glands to produce cortisol. Cortisol manages stress and it also manages blood sugar levels too.

When blood sugar levels change too quickly cortisol is used to pull it back up again. Your blood sugar levels rise as it triggers the release of stored sugars into the blood to help with the energy that you may need when the fight to fight reaction is processed. Unstable blood sugar can make you feel the same as you feel when an event makes you angry, frustrated, frightened, e.g. STRESSED! So… sugar makes your stress response worse.

 

Even when you can’t control every cause of stress in your world, the simple act of keeping your blood sugar levels stable will make you more resilient, less irritable and better able to handle your sugar cravings.

 

Our Top Tips for Beating Sugar and Lowering Stress

Start your day off right and balance the relationship between sugar and stress.

  1. Eat a high quality protein fuelled breakfast

 

Kick Special K out of your kitchen, because those, along with high sugar breakfast foods (bagels, overly sweetened yoghurts) sabotage your blood sugar, your mood, and your waistline. You will function SO MUCH better if you eat a healthy, balanced breakfast.

Stick with high quality protein, eggs, paired with good fat sources such as coconut oil and avocados.

 

  1. Don’t skip breakfast

 

Having no food lowers your metabolism. This makes you less able to burn fat for fuel. You will also crave more sugar when the 4pm sugar slump arrives!

 

  1. Stay away from high amounts of caffeine

 

Caffeine gives you energy by raising your blood sugar in the same way that sugary food does. Then comes THE CRASH. Drink organic green tea with a slice of lemon instead.

 

  1. Get active

 

Anything works: walking, running, yoga, you name it! It helps regulate your blood sugar level too. Insulin sensitivity is increased, which means that your cells are better able to use any available insulin to take up glucose during and after exercising.

 

 

What about you?  What links have you found between sugar and stress?  We’d love to hear from you, please leave us a comment in the box below xx

 

 

The Bad News About Habits

I hate to be the one to break this to you but…. you can’t break a habit!!

 

So often we just pass through our days in a sort of automatic state, not really conscious of why we do the things we do. Our habits are leading us through the day.

The brain just sort of gets on with the routine stuff like eating, driving, taking a shower etc etc so that you can concentrate on the other stuff… drafting that email, phoning a client, reading a report.

Often these routine behaviours or habits actually started out as something we had to concentrate on or make a conscious decision to do in a certain way, like driving a car.

Driving Lesson Habits

Do you remember your first ever driving lesson.. one wheel, three peddles, three mirrors, two indicator levers … not to mention the sticks and nobs in the middle!!!!

I don’t know about you but my mind was blown by the amount of stuff there was to concentrate on in those first lessons.

These days I don’t even give how I drive a second thought… though if any of her majesty’s constabulary are reading this of course I’m a very mindful driver!!!  But really I just get in the car and drive, I can listen to the radio while I drive, I can hold a conversation and drive, I can even read a map and drive..  My brain knows how to drive and so it just gets on with it… its the prefect time and energy saving system.

Except… that this same time and energy saving system is why it is so easy to get stuck in a food and poor eating rut.

Mindless Eating Habits

Your brain is looking for the easy, energy saving solution for you.  You are a busy woman, there are so many claims on your time and your conscious attention. So your helpful brain creates some eating habits…that way you don’t even need to think about them at all.. you can just eat without thinking about it.

The problem with eating habits is that they tend to focus on food that is convenient, fast and often time also rewarding…food that quickly makes you feel better.  Step forward Carbs, Fats and Sugars… or the heavenly trio of all three (pizza anyone!!)

The first couple of times you eat this mindless way you actually feel good, it wasn’t at all stressful thinking about what to eat, the reward centres in your brain had a party with the quick release energy surging in your system.  Its felt like a winning habit….

But then .. the habit starts to stick… and before long you really are stuck in the habitual mindless eating.  Now it’s not so good, you stared to put on weight, your energy levels are unstable, you don’t feel great.  You really want to change…but its so hard to kick the habit.

Heres the thing about habits… you can not break a habit!!! 

Bad news indeed!!!

But the good news is that you can create a new habit…one that very soon becomes stronger than the old unhelpful unhealthy habit.  Yes it will take time, a little effort and some conscious attention… remember those early driving lessons..

Creating New Habits

Its not easy but it is simple.  Think about one of your unhelpful or unhealthy habits, one that you really want to change. Now think about a new healthy helpful habit that you would like to replace it with… keep it real here…you wont go from snacking on a family sized bar of Dairy Milk during Eastenders to knitting bedsocks but you can switch the choc bar for a handful of seeds and nuts or a small plate of crudities.  You are replacing one behaviour with a new one.  Soon the brain catches up and the chocolate is forgotten.  Then you can move on again… make sense?

It can be hard to challenge old behaviours and habits thats why behavioural change is the heart of every one of our residential retreats.  Whether its the habit of not sleeping, the habit of always saying yes, getting the afternoon munchies, sweetie scoffing on car journeys we have helped hundreds of women turn their back on on old unhelpful habits and embrace new healthy habits instead.

If you feel that you need help to get some new healthy habits nailed then get in touch.

 

 

Poached Egg with Bulgar Wheat Breakfast Hash

This morning I woke with a real craving for eggs and carbs!!

Normally this would mean egg on toast, I normally only eat bread baked by Julie Brealy as she makes me the most amazing sourdough rye bread which my gut can tolerate much better than commercial breads.   But we have just returned from our andalusian retreat and there has been no baking so far at The Body Retreat.  So no bread for me.

Serves 1
  • 30gms Dry Bulgar Wheat
  • 2 Asparagus Spears, chopped
  • 1 Scallion, chopped
  • 1/2 Avocado, chopped
  • Small Handful Baby Spinach, chopped
  • 1 large Free Range Egg
  • Chilli Flakes, Fresh Ground Black Pepper, Olive Oil

So my crab craving was satisfied this morning by using bulgar wheat. Buglar wheat or cracked wheat is a good source of dietary fibre and plant protein.  While bulgur wheat is definitely a step up from refined carbohydrates it’s still best to have in moderation.

You could substitute Quinoa for the bulgar wheat here and have a great dish if you want to go gluten free.

To Make Egg and Bulgar Wheat Breakfast Breakfast Hash

  1.  Cook the bulgar wheat until aldente.
  2. Cook the asparagus and then add with the other vegetables to the cooked bulgar wheat and mix.
  3. Poach your egg and then simply load up your plate with the bulgar wheat mix and top with your egg.
  4. Sprinkle with chilli flakes, black pepper and olive oil
  5. Enjoy